Create Your Personal Kink List

What a Kink List Is — and Why People Make One

A kink list is a personal record of your interests, curiosities, and limits — something to think through on your own and, eventually, to share with a partner so you don't have to remember or reconstruct it from scratch in the moment.

Why a Paper List (or a Shared Doc) Falls Short

A static list — a spreadsheet, a shared doc, a printed checklist — goes stale the moment you change your mind about something. It's awkward to update together, easy to lose track of which version is current, and it offers no real control over who can see it or when.

How MyKink.me's Kink List Works

Answer an admin-curated questionnaire once, then revisit and change your answers any time. Each interest gets a rating on a simple five-point scale, from "Really not for me" to "Love it" — or you can mark something Unsure / Willing to Explore if you're curious but not sure yet. Anything that's a firm no can be marked a Hard Limit, which always displays the same way so it's never mistaken for a low rating.

Keeping It Updated

Your list isn't locked in. Revisit it whenever your interests change — there's no "final" version to redo from scratch.

Sharing It

Your kink list stays private until you decide otherwise. Share it with a password, a temporary link, or make it public — the choice, and the timing, is always yours.