Community Guidelines

Last Updated: October 3, 2026

MyKink.me is built to make conversations about interests, boundaries, and limits easier.

People should be able to create and share their profiles without fear of being judged, harassed, exposed, pressured, or having their information used against them.

These Community Guidelines explain the standards we expect everyone using MyKink.me to follow.

By using MyKink.me, you agree to follow these Guidelines and our Terms of Service.

Our community standards can be summed up simply:

Be an adult. Respect boundaries. Protect privacy. Never assume consent. Don't be a jerk.

MyKink.me welcomes a wide range of interests, identities, preferences, and experience levels.

You don't have to understand or share someone else's interests to respect them.

MyKink.me is strictly for people who are 18 years of age or older.

There are no exceptions.

You may not:

• create an account if you are under 18;
• create an account for someone under 18;
• allow a minor to use your account;
• create or share profiles depicting or describing minors in a sexual context;
• use MyKink.me to communicate sexual interests involving actual minors; or
• attempt to use the platform to contact or exploit minors.

If we reasonably believe an account belongs to or is being used by someone under 18, we may immediately suspend or terminate it.

Content involving the sexual exploitation of minors may also be reported to appropriate authorities when required by law.

This is one of the most important rules on MyKink.me:

A MyKink.me profile is never consent.

Not a five-heart rating.

Not “Willing to Explore.”

Not something written in a note.

Not something someone previously said they enjoyed.

And not something you know they have done before.

A profile communicates information. People give consent.

Someone indicating that they're interested in an activity does not mean they consent to that activity with you, at this moment, or under any particular circumstances.

Consent must happen separately between the people involved.

Respect what someone tells you now—even when their profile says something different.

When someone identifies something as a Hard Limit, respect it.

Do not use MyKink.me information to pressure someone into changing a boundary.

That means no:

• repeated pressure;
• guilt trips;
• manipulation;
• coercion;
• threats;
• humiliation for having a boundary; or
• treating someone's limits as a challenge to overcome.

People are allowed to have boundaries.

They don't owe you an explanation for them.

MyKink.me lets users identify things they're Unsure / Willing to Explore.

That means they're curious or potentially open to learning more.

It does not mean yes.

Treat it as an invitation to communicate—not an invitation to act.

MyKink.me profiles can contain deeply personal information.

Treat someone else's profile the way you'd want them to treat yours.

Do not use another person's profile information to:

• expose them;
• embarrass them;
• threaten them;
• blackmail them;
• discriminate against them;
• harass them;
• reveal their identity;
• damage their relationships or employment; or
• otherwise cause them harm.

Information being visible to you does not make it yours to distribute.

MyKink.me profiles are designed to be unlisted.

There is no public user directory, and profiles are intended to be accessed through their unique profile URLs.

If someone shares their profile with you, that does not mean they've agreed for you to share it with everyone else.

Do not publish, repost, distribute, or intentionally expose another person's MyKink.me profile without their permission.

If someone trusted you with their profile, respect that trust.

MyKink.me has zero tolerance for using the platform or information obtained through it to threaten or intimidate someone.

You may not:

• stalk someone;
• repeatedly contact someone after they've asked you to stop;
• threaten physical or sexual violence;
• threaten to expose someone's profile;
• threaten to reveal someone's interests or identity;
• use profile information for blackmail or extortion;
• organize harassment against another person; or
• encourage others to harass someone.

A disagreement does not give you permission to weaponize someone's private information.

People may use MyKink.me pseudonymously for a reason.

Do not attempt to expose another user's identity without their permission.

This includes deliberately connecting someone's MyKink.me profile with their:

• legal name;
• employer;
• family;
• social media accounts;
• home address;
• phone number;
• other online identities; or
• other identifying information.

Using MyKink.me to dox, expose, or intentionally identify another person may result in immediate account suspension or termination.

MyKink.me exists so people can selectively communicate information—not so profiles can become a dataset.

Do not:

• scrape profiles;
• harvest profile URLs;
• systematically collect questionnaire responses;
• create databases of users or their interests;
• use bots to access profiles;
• use automated tools to collect profile information;
• sell or distribute profile information; or
• use MyKink.me data to train external AI or machine-learning systems without authorization.

Automated or systematic collection of profile information may result in immediate termination and additional technical or legal action where appropriate.

Be yourself—even if “yourself” uses a pseudonym.

You may use a display name or pseudonym on MyKink.me. You may not pretend to be another real person.

Do not:

• create a profile pretending to be someone else;
• create a profile for another person without permission;
• copy another person's profile;
• deliberately misrepresent another person's interests; or
• use someone else's identity to deceive people.

Parody or fictional accounts must not reasonably mislead people into believing they represent an actual person.

Never use MyKink.me to distribute, threaten to distribute, or facilitate the distribution of intimate information or imagery without the person's permission.

This includes revenge porn, non-consensual intimate imagery, hidden-camera material, sexually explicit deepfakes involving identifiable people, or other intimate content distributed without authorization.

Threatening to distribute intimate content is also prohibited.

MyKink.me may not be used to facilitate exploitation, human trafficking, coercion, or unlawful commercial sexual activity.

MyKink.me is a profile and information-sharing tool.

It is not a marketplace for sexual services.

People come to MyKink.me with different interests, identities, boundaries, experience levels, and comfort levels.

You don't have to share someone's interests.

You don't have to understand them.

You don't even have to like them.

But don't use MyKink.me to shame, humiliate, bully, or harass someone because of consensual adult interests they've chosen to disclose.

Different doesn't mean disrespectful.

People should be able to describe themselves in ways that feel appropriate to them.

Do not intentionally use another person's identity or profile information to harass, demean, expose, or discriminate against them.

If you don't connect with someone's identity, preferences, or interests, you can simply move on.

Your profile should represent you.

Don't deliberately falsify your interests or boundaries to manipulate another person.

Preferences can change. Curiosity can change. Boundaries can change.

That's normal.

When yours change, update your profile.

Your MyKink.me account is personal to you.

Use a strong, unique password and don't intentionally give other people access to your account.

Never attempt to:

• access someone else's account;
• obtain another user's password;
• bypass authentication;
• exploit a security vulnerability;
• interfere with MyKink.me infrastructure; or
• circumvent restrictions placed on an account.

If you discover a potential security problem, report it rather than exploiting it.

Contact support@mykink.me.

No rulebook can anticipate every possible form of abuse.

If you're using MyKink.me or information obtained through MyKink.me to deliberately harm, exploit, threaten, deceive, expose, or intimidate another person, you're violating the spirit of these Guidelines even if the exact behavior isn't listed above.

We may take action when conduct creates a meaningful risk to users, the Service, or others.

If someone is violating these Community Guidelines or misusing information obtained through MyKink.me, please tell us.

Contact:

support@mykink.me

When possible, include:

• your MyKink.me username;
• the username or profile URL involved;
• a description of what happened;
• when it happened; and
• any information that may help us understand the situation.

Do not put yourself at additional risk to collect evidence.

If you believe you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services or appropriate local authorities.

We review reports based on the available information and circumstances.

Depending on the situation, we may:

• request additional information;
• issue a warning;
• remove or restrict content;
• restrict account functionality;
• temporarily suspend an account;
• permanently terminate an account;
• prevent creation of replacement accounts;
• preserve information relevant to an investigation; or
• take other reasonable action necessary to protect users or the Service.

Our general approach is to provide a warning and an opportunity to correct behavior when appropriate.

Some behavior is serious enough to justify immediate action.

Examples include suspected involvement of minors, credible threats, stalking, exploitation, trafficking, non-consensual intimate content, blackmail, severe privacy violations, malicious scraping, fraud, or significant security threats.

Reporting tools exist to protect the community.

Don't intentionally submit false reports to retaliate against, intimidate, or harass another person.

A report made in good faith will not violate these Guidelines simply because we ultimately determine that no violation occurred.

Repeated intentional misuse of the reporting process may result in account action.

MyKink.me will continue to evolve, and these Community Guidelines may evolve with it.

We may update them as new features are introduced, new risks emerge, or we learn more about how people use the Service.

When material changes are made, we'll provide appropriate notice.

You don't need to share someone's interests to respect them.

You don't need to understand someone's boundaries to honor them.

And knowing someone's interests never gives you permission to act on them.

Know yourself. Share intentionally. Communicate clearly. Respect boundaries. Get consent.

That's the community we're building.

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