FAQ

MyKink.me is your kink profile—your interests, boundaries, and limits in one easy-to-share place.

It gives you a simple way to document what you're interested in, what you're curious about, and what isn't for you. When you're ready, you can share your personal profile link with someone you choose.

MyKink.me is designed to make conversations easier—not replace them.

No.

MyKink.me is a profile and information-sharing tool, not a dating or matchmaking service.

There is no dating feed, matching system, or direct messaging between users. You decide who receives your MyKink.me profile outside of the platform.

It's simple:

1. Create your account. Sign up and create your MyKink.me profile.

2. Complete your questionnaire. Tell us about your interests, boundaries, limits, and things you may be curious about exploring.

3. Keep your profile updated. Your preferences can change. You can return and update your answers whenever you want.

4. Share when you choose. Your profile has its own URL that you can share directly with someone when you want them to see it.

Your profile isn't placed in a public MyKink.me directory.

No.

MyKink.me does not require your legal name. You can use a display name or pseudonym for your profile.

Remember that information you add to your profile could still potentially identify you, so consider carefully what you choose to include.

Yes. MyKink.me is currently free to use.

There are currently no paid subscription plans.

Yes. MyKink.me is strictly for adults 18 and older.

Anyone under 18 is prohibited from creating an account or using the service.

Your profile is built from the information you choose to provide through your MyKink.me questionnaire.

Depending on the questions available to you, this can include your interests, interest ratings, boundaries, hard limits, things you're unsure about or willing to explore, and notes you've chosen to add.

You control your answers and can update them as your interests and boundaries evolve.

Yes.

Your MyKink.me profile isn't meant to be permanent or frozen in time. You can return to your questionnaire and update your responses whenever you want.

We actually encourage you to keep your profile current.

Yes.

You aren't required to have an opinion about everything. If a question doesn't apply to you or you'd rather not answer it, you can skip it.

Only provide information you're comfortable adding to your profile.

MyKink.me may personalize the questionnaire you receive so the questions presented to you are more relevant.

This helps reduce irrelevant questions and makes completing your profile easier.

Personalization doesn't mean you need to answer every question. You can still skip questions you don't want to answer.

We want the questionnaire to continue improving.

If there's an interest, preference, or topic you think should be available, send your suggestion to [email protected].

Suggestions may be reviewed before they're added to MyKink.me.

Currently, each account has one MyKink.me profile.

You can update that profile whenever you want.

MyKink.me gives you several ways to describe how you feel about an interest.

1–5 Interest Rating Use the rating scale to indicate your level of interest. A lower rating represents less interest, while a higher rating represents stronger interest.

Unsure / Willing to Explore Choose this when you're curious or potentially open to something but don't currently have a definite rating.

Hard Limit Use this when an activity or interest is outside your boundaries and something you don't want to participate in.

These tools are intended to help communicate your preferences. They don't replace a conversation with another person.

MyKink.me treats these as different response types rather than assuming one automatically overrides another.

Use the response that most accurately communicates how you currently feel about an interest.

If your feelings or boundaries change, update your profile.

It means exactly that: you're not assigning a definite interest rating, but you may be curious or willing to learn more.

It does not mean you've agreed to participate in the activity.

Being curious is not consent.

Your profile is unlisted, but you should not treat an unlisted profile as completely private.

MyKink.me doesn't provide a public directory where people can browse or search for users.

Instead, your profile is accessible through its unique profile URL. Anyone who obtains that URL may be able to view the information available on your profile.

Think of your profile link as something you should share intentionally.

No.

MyKink.me does not currently provide a public user search or profile directory.

Someone generally needs your profile URL to access your profile.

MyKink.me profiles are designed not to be indexed by public search engines.

We use technical measures intended to discourage search engines from indexing profile pages.

However, no website can guarantee that an Internet-accessible page will never be discovered, cached, archived, or indexed by a third-party service.

That's another reason to be thoughtful about what you include in your profile.

No.

Your interests, questionnaire responses, boundaries, hard limits, and similar profile information are not used for targeted advertising.

MyKink.me may use basic analytics to understand how the website is being used and improve the service, but your questionnaire content isn't intended to become advertising-profile data.

For more information about how data is handled, review the MyKink.me Privacy Policy.

If you believe someone is using information from your MyKink.me profile to harass you, threaten you, impersonate you, expose your identity, or otherwise violate our Terms of Service, contact us at:

[email protected]

Include as much relevant information as you reasonably can so we can investigate.

If you believe you're in immediate danger or a crime has occurred, contact the appropriate local authorities.

Every public profile includes a way to report a concern. See our Community Guidelines for what's expected of everyone using MyKink.me.

No. A MyKink.me profile is never consent.

An interest rating, preference, fantasy, boundary, questionnaire response, or indication that someone is willing to explore something does not mean they've consented to do it with you—or anyone else.

A profile can help start a conversation.

It cannot replace consent.

Consent must happen separately between the people involved and apply to the specific interaction taking place.

No.

A high interest rating communicates interest. It does not communicate consent.

Someone may be very interested in an activity generally while not wanting to participate in it with a particular person, at a particular time, or under particular circumstances.

Interest ≠ consent.

No.

It means the person is unsure or potentially interested in exploring the topic.

It does not mean they've agreed to participate.

Talk about it first.

No.

MyKink.me is designed to help conversations happen, not eliminate them.

Profiles can give people a useful starting point for discussing interests, boundaries, expectations, and limits. They should never be treated as a substitute for direct communication.

Ask them.

People's interests and boundaries can change, and a profile may not always reflect someone's current feelings.

Never assume an old profile response overrides what someone is telling you now.

Use the Forgot Password option on the MyKink.me sign-in page.

We'll send password-reset instructions to the email address associated with your account.

If you no longer have access to that email address, contact [email protected].

Sign in to your account and open your editable interests questionnaire.

You can update your responses and profile information whenever you need to.

Yes.

You can request deletion of your MyKink.me account.

After deletion is initiated, your account may remain recoverable for up to 30 days. After that recovery period expires, deletion of your account information from active systems will begin, subject to normal backup retention and limited information we may need to retain for legal or security reasons.

See our Privacy Policy for complete details.

Two-factor authentication isn't currently available.

Additional account-security features, including 2FA, are planned for future development.

In the meantime, use a strong password that you don't use on other websites.

We're here to help.

If you have a question about your account, profile, questionnaire, privacy, or using MyKink.me, contact:

[email protected]

For privacy requests: [email protected]

For legal matters: [email protected]

MyKink.me — Know yourself. Share intentionally. Communicate clearly.